I think this is one of the areas that the mind set is different for men and women. For a man, it depends on the length of a relationship. If they know it will be short term, trust and communication isn't really an issue. They know all they are in it for is the sex and they know that it will be over in a small amount of time.On the other hand, women see it differently. I think some of it is because they were taught as kids to be afraid of men. They are told to be on the look out for strangers or people who might harm them. Think about it... How many times do you hear of a woman raping a child? Not very often.
I do think this plays into the mind set of a woman. She will need someone she can trust and communicate with to have sex. Now, I don't mean that this is the case with a one night stand or someone that she has casual sex with. Instead, this is in regards to a relationship. You see, women view all relationships as a strong bond. Being that this is the case, even for a short term relationship she needs to have trust and communication to have sex.
Let's talk about trust for a little while. You might not like what I have to say, but that is your choice.
- Women have a reason why they shouldn't trust men. Actually, they have a lot of reasons. On one hand I feel that this is a sad thing, but on the other hand I understand it. I understand the sexual desires of a man and I understand why they think they way they do.
- We all are looking to get a woman in bed. We all want to get our freak on as much as we can. Women know this. This is a reason why she doesn't trust men. She knows that men will say anything and I mean anything to get in her pants. How many times have you lied trying to get into a girls pants? Probably more times than you can count.
- Again the issue with the girls that get raped while they are kids. This does put a lot of fear into a woman at an early age. Also, people rape adults. So they are constantly on the look out for the person who is going to rape them. It does happen, more so than what we may think. It is a sad state in this world when men have to rape a woman to have sex. Personally if I was in such a situation, I would rent a porn movie and jerk off.
- Women sometimes don't trust men because their fathers were abusive. This has more of an effect on women than we would like to think. A lot of people have had abusive childhoods. It is more common than we think.
- If you are out for a quick lay, I'm not sure that it is worth the effort to try to figure out why a potential date or even your current girlfriend has issues with trusting you. I mean, if you are only looking for sex and she isn't giving it to you, why stick around?
- If on the other hand you are looking for a long term relationship with this woman, then you should take the time out to know why she is the way she is. She might have been abused or raped sometime in her life. It is important to know this, but I wouldn't dig too deep.
- If you have to dig deep about what bothers her about men, chances are she doesn't want you or anyone else to know. It is possible that after she feels more comfortable with you, she will tell you. On the other hand, she might just think you are an asshole.
- People can be very timid in regards to telling others about their problems. They are afraid they may laugh at them or hold it against them. This does happen. You might not think about it, but some men won't even touch a woman who has been raped. They don't understand that it wasn't their fault, all they think about is the dirty act and how dirty they must be.
This is why it is important that you keep an open line of communication with your woman. She needs to know that she can talk about anything and everything to you. The next time she talks about her period, don't go ape shit and tell her that it is disgusting. Put up with it and ask questions if you need to. This is the key thing if you want her to trust you. by Peter James
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Monday, March 24, 2008
Breasts (part 2)
Last time I talked in general terms about boobs and having fun with them. This time I want to get a bit more specific and give you some suggestions on how to work on your babe’s boobs and what will give her the best sensations and what won’t. Fortunately no two girls are the same so what works for me and many other chicks may not work on your babe; lets face it, there are some girls out there who don’t want their tits to be touched by anyone. Personally I love guys playing with my tits and whenever my partner and I are just cuddling I’m not happy unless he spends some time fondling my boobs, afterall my boobs are there for a reason, and that reason is HIM.
Obviously you all realise that tits come in all shapes and sizes from very small up to very large. I’ve had fun with a girl who really had no tits at all – just very large nipples. On the other hand my natural D’s while big are not the biggest natural tits out there. I am sure that you have all seen pics on various websites of babes with natural boobs up to sizes so big that they would kill you if they ever fell on you. It’s just as well that girls’ boobs come in all shapes and sizes because guys’ tastes differ too. Some guys love babes with very little up top, my friend with nothing but nipples has no shortage of guys who want to get her into bed. Other guys like flirting with potential injury and only want to play with the biggest tits they can find and in between there are guys who just like tits – no matter what size they come in. I suppose with all this variation and interest in girls’ boobs it was not long before scientists began looking at them too (the little perverts!?!).
Now there is an excuse if ever I heard one, why didn’t they just say they wanted to look at tits because they like looking at tits? I know a couple of scientists intimately and they’re just as randy as any other guy but they do like to be discreet so I guess hiding their interest behind a scientific study into tits is understandable. The studies have shown that while babes with big tits have the most fun it’s the babes with the perky little tits that have the most sensation. Evidently the longer you stretch nerve fibre the less amount of sensation that is passed along it so babes with little tits have shorter nerve fibres than babes with big tits. This means that when you lick or nibble a small tit you will produce more sensation for the owner of that tit and give them a bigger buzz than you will give a girl who has big or droopy tits.
When talking about boobs it’s impossible to overlook those wonderful little brown thingies that sit on the end of most boobs, the nipples. Big nipples have lots of nerve endings in them and when given the right sort of attention these nerve endings can send a girl into orgasm very easily – I know from personal experience. On the other hand big nipples can be over sensitive and produce so much sensation that it becomes painful for the girl. So tread warily until you know how much sensation your babe gets from her big nipples. Small nipples tend to be less sensitive and for many girls with small nipples the areola (the brown circular area around the nipple) is more sensitive and the area on the areola between 10 and 2 is the place to play. A small percentage of girls have inverted nipples but they get just as much sensation from sucking, licking and touching as other girls do.
So in case you’re wondering, here is what works for me. If you’re going to suck my boobs then you should definitely not suck so hard you are going to bruise me – no girl likes to be damaged like that, especially a hooker because bruising will cost her money. Instead don’t be too gentle either, just a nice firm suck and while you’re doing it run your tongue around my nipples and I’ll get so wet you will be able to feel my juices running all over your balls. If you want to nibble be gentle – hold my nipples in your teeth and gently pull and you will very quickly here how loudly I can moan. If you want to touch my breasts then cup them in your hands and squeeze gently or even run your fingers lightly around the areola and flick the nipples gently now and again. Treat me like that and you’ll get special treatment in return every time.
Now I suppose I should tell you what the experts say will please a woman. I’m not sure what qualifies these people as experts seeing that they are all men but I do want to give you a balanced view. The experts suggest that if your babe has big boobs then she gets the best sensation while lying on her back and you should concentrate on the outside of the breasts below the armpits and use your tongue and fingertips with a light flicking motion. A little nibbling may be good too. After reading that all I can say is that I’m glad I don’t have those experts playing with my boobs.
As I said before, that is not going to apply to everyone and it certainly doesn’t apply to me. If it’s a guy I like then nothing gets me hornier than sitting on his cock while he sucks, nibbles and plays. The sensation when I’m lying on my back is nice too but it isn’t anywhere near as good as what I get when I’m on top If your babe has small breasts the experts suggest that you should gently bounce your babes tits around in the cups of your hands remembering that small tits are much more sensitive than big ones. If you’re lady is breastfeeding an infant then you should be as gentle as you can because the baby has probably tried to suck her breasts off her chest. Be patient with her if she doesn’t want you to touch her breasts and if she does then you should concentrate on the underneath part of them.
Finally there are those babes who have filled up their chest with silicon for whatever reason. If done correctly implants will not affect the sensations that the girl will get when you play with her tits. These babes seem to get the most sensation when you start away from their nipples and gradually move your tongue or fingers in towards the nipples. So there you have a ton of information about tits and how to handle them. Perhaps you think you don’t need this sort of information, unfortunately it is my experience that the vast majority of guys who see me have no idea what to do when presented with a pair of eager boobs just begging to be handled correctly.
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Obviously you all realise that tits come in all shapes and sizes from very small up to very large. I’ve had fun with a girl who really had no tits at all – just very large nipples. On the other hand my natural D’s while big are not the biggest natural tits out there. I am sure that you have all seen pics on various websites of babes with natural boobs up to sizes so big that they would kill you if they ever fell on you. It’s just as well that girls’ boobs come in all shapes and sizes because guys’ tastes differ too. Some guys love babes with very little up top, my friend with nothing but nipples has no shortage of guys who want to get her into bed. Other guys like flirting with potential injury and only want to play with the biggest tits they can find and in between there are guys who just like tits – no matter what size they come in. I suppose with all this variation and interest in girls’ boobs it was not long before scientists began looking at them too (the little perverts!?!).
Now there is an excuse if ever I heard one, why didn’t they just say they wanted to look at tits because they like looking at tits? I know a couple of scientists intimately and they’re just as randy as any other guy but they do like to be discreet so I guess hiding their interest behind a scientific study into tits is understandable. The studies have shown that while babes with big tits have the most fun it’s the babes with the perky little tits that have the most sensation. Evidently the longer you stretch nerve fibre the less amount of sensation that is passed along it so babes with little tits have shorter nerve fibres than babes with big tits. This means that when you lick or nibble a small tit you will produce more sensation for the owner of that tit and give them a bigger buzz than you will give a girl who has big or droopy tits.
When talking about boobs it’s impossible to overlook those wonderful little brown thingies that sit on the end of most boobs, the nipples. Big nipples have lots of nerve endings in them and when given the right sort of attention these nerve endings can send a girl into orgasm very easily – I know from personal experience. On the other hand big nipples can be over sensitive and produce so much sensation that it becomes painful for the girl. So tread warily until you know how much sensation your babe gets from her big nipples. Small nipples tend to be less sensitive and for many girls with small nipples the areola (the brown circular area around the nipple) is more sensitive and the area on the areola between 10 and 2 is the place to play. A small percentage of girls have inverted nipples but they get just as much sensation from sucking, licking and touching as other girls do.
So in case you’re wondering, here is what works for me. If you’re going to suck my boobs then you should definitely not suck so hard you are going to bruise me – no girl likes to be damaged like that, especially a hooker because bruising will cost her money. Instead don’t be too gentle either, just a nice firm suck and while you’re doing it run your tongue around my nipples and I’ll get so wet you will be able to feel my juices running all over your balls. If you want to nibble be gentle – hold my nipples in your teeth and gently pull and you will very quickly here how loudly I can moan. If you want to touch my breasts then cup them in your hands and squeeze gently or even run your fingers lightly around the areola and flick the nipples gently now and again. Treat me like that and you’ll get special treatment in return every time.
Now I suppose I should tell you what the experts say will please a woman. I’m not sure what qualifies these people as experts seeing that they are all men but I do want to give you a balanced view. The experts suggest that if your babe has big boobs then she gets the best sensation while lying on her back and you should concentrate on the outside of the breasts below the armpits and use your tongue and fingertips with a light flicking motion. A little nibbling may be good too. After reading that all I can say is that I’m glad I don’t have those experts playing with my boobs.
As I said before, that is not going to apply to everyone and it certainly doesn’t apply to me. If it’s a guy I like then nothing gets me hornier than sitting on his cock while he sucks, nibbles and plays. The sensation when I’m lying on my back is nice too but it isn’t anywhere near as good as what I get when I’m on top If your babe has small breasts the experts suggest that you should gently bounce your babes tits around in the cups of your hands remembering that small tits are much more sensitive than big ones. If you’re lady is breastfeeding an infant then you should be as gentle as you can because the baby has probably tried to suck her breasts off her chest. Be patient with her if she doesn’t want you to touch her breasts and if she does then you should concentrate on the underneath part of them.
Finally there are those babes who have filled up their chest with silicon for whatever reason. If done correctly implants will not affect the sensations that the girl will get when you play with her tits. These babes seem to get the most sensation when you start away from their nipples and gradually move your tongue or fingers in towards the nipples. So there you have a ton of information about tits and how to handle them. Perhaps you think you don’t need this sort of information, unfortunately it is my experience that the vast majority of guys who see me have no idea what to do when presented with a pair of eager boobs just begging to be handled correctly.
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Saturday, March 22, 2008
Friday, March 21, 2008
Worried about size?
When it comes to sex, “Am I big enough?” has simply got to be the top question men have been asking themselves in the privacy of their own minds since forever. And most of them answer the question the wrong way, because men always tend to compare themselves with other people. This leads to doubts and questions about the size of their penises and performance adequacy. Many men go to ridiculous lengths to offset what they perceive as a shortcoming on their side. But is it really a problem?
This kind of behaviour is very common. Nearly every man asks himself the “Size Question” at some point or another in his life and since men are too afraid to ask the question directly, they never get a satisfactory answer. And so the matter drags on in their minds instead of being put to rest once and for all. It’s a shame that some men find nothing better to do with their time and efforts than to prove to themselves and to the world that they don’t have small penises. This fear of being too small may grow to become a serious problem for some men. It’s a blight upon their confidence and it may drive them to do silly things.
Women are looking for other things aside from a big penis. It’s not that having 7 or 8 inches doesn’t help at all. Women like to ogle men before getting into anything serious and a sizeable bulge in the pants scores points with them. Studies and polls have conclusively shown that women are far more interested in partners with good hygiene habits and who know how to bring them to orgasm, big penis or no big penis. Therefore penis size is nothing more than an item on the big check list for most women. Something akin to: “Penis size check – done. Now let’s move on to something even more important”.
The average penis size is 5.5 to 6 inches. And since most men are this size and still think themselves below average, it follows that men are not very good at judging their own size. If you start asking men about the size of their penises, you can be certain that most men would give themselves an extra inch or two, just to come across as really hung guys. However, a bigger organ may look impressive, but if it’s too big to fit comfortably inside the vagina or if the owner is clueless in bed, then all those inches are wasted. And the worst part of all this is the fact that most women care more about the quality and intensity of sex and less about the size of the man’s penis.
If you’re an average-sized guy and not content with your size, there are a few tricks that can help make your penis look bigger. The actual penis size can be hidden by the pubic hair. So, if you think you could profit from this, trim your pubic hair. A simple trick is to have a hot shower before sex. The hot water would help fill the penis with blood and make it hang heavier than normal. Or you could lose some weight. The pad of fat located at the base of the penis can grow in size along with the overall body fat and may obscure the base of the penis. Losing weight would decrease the pad and bring back the hidden inches.
Still, the easiest thing you could do is to have an honest talk with your partner and find out if your penis is adequate in size or if your partner actually cares about this. Still, be advised that, more often than not, an honest talk is likely to bring up other relationship-related issues than penis size. Penis size should be the least of your worries.
This kind of behaviour is very common. Nearly every man asks himself the “Size Question” at some point or another in his life and since men are too afraid to ask the question directly, they never get a satisfactory answer. And so the matter drags on in their minds instead of being put to rest once and for all. It’s a shame that some men find nothing better to do with their time and efforts than to prove to themselves and to the world that they don’t have small penises. This fear of being too small may grow to become a serious problem for some men. It’s a blight upon their confidence and it may drive them to do silly things.
Women are looking for other things aside from a big penis. It’s not that having 7 or 8 inches doesn’t help at all. Women like to ogle men before getting into anything serious and a sizeable bulge in the pants scores points with them. Studies and polls have conclusively shown that women are far more interested in partners with good hygiene habits and who know how to bring them to orgasm, big penis or no big penis. Therefore penis size is nothing more than an item on the big check list for most women. Something akin to: “Penis size check – done. Now let’s move on to something even more important”.
The average penis size is 5.5 to 6 inches. And since most men are this size and still think themselves below average, it follows that men are not very good at judging their own size. If you start asking men about the size of their penises, you can be certain that most men would give themselves an extra inch or two, just to come across as really hung guys. However, a bigger organ may look impressive, but if it’s too big to fit comfortably inside the vagina or if the owner is clueless in bed, then all those inches are wasted. And the worst part of all this is the fact that most women care more about the quality and intensity of sex and less about the size of the man’s penis.
If you’re an average-sized guy and not content with your size, there are a few tricks that can help make your penis look bigger. The actual penis size can be hidden by the pubic hair. So, if you think you could profit from this, trim your pubic hair. A simple trick is to have a hot shower before sex. The hot water would help fill the penis with blood and make it hang heavier than normal. Or you could lose some weight. The pad of fat located at the base of the penis can grow in size along with the overall body fat and may obscure the base of the penis. Losing weight would decrease the pad and bring back the hidden inches.
Still, the easiest thing you could do is to have an honest talk with your partner and find out if your penis is adequate in size or if your partner actually cares about this. Still, be advised that, more often than not, an honest talk is likely to bring up other relationship-related issues than penis size. Penis size should be the least of your worries.
Erogenous zones on the female body
Since the body of a woman is one of the most delightful things in a man's life, it is only natural that men should want to be more curious about what spots must be touched to drive a woman wild with desire. The erogenous zones are areas of the female and male bodies that have heightened sensitivity. Stimulation of these areas usually results in sexual response, although not every individual responds in the same way to the stimulation of all erogenous zones.
Some of the erogenous zones of the female body, such as the nape of the neck and the inner thighs, are well known from the popular literature. Others, such as the feet and the buttocks, are seen as belonging rather to the fetish group by certain people. However, we shall review them all here.
The feet: The feet are a good place to start hen learning about the power of touch over a woman's sensitive areas. Many women like to have their toes tickled, licked and sucked on lightly. Yes, this does sound like a brave thing to do for many men, but many guys actually enjoy it. Moving up we find the back of the knees, which is an area featuring a high number of nerve endings. This means that the skin is very sensitive to touches and kisses. Further up still are the inner thighs, one of the most popular erogenous areas. Kiss them lightly, bite them lightly and caress to your (and hers) heart's content. Women will love it. At the top backside of the feet are the buttocks, another sensitive area and most women like to have it caressed. If you want to make her sizzling hot, you can also try kissing and licking and I'm sure most guys would not mind if it led to a little anal sex.
The nape of her neck and the ears. These two are a powerful combination and are usually the place to start the foreplay. Kissing, licking, caressing and massage work wonders on the most sensual part of her neck, while gently nibbling her ears will maker her hot and show you are a sophisticated lover at the same time.
The big three. And finally we come to the big three erogenous zones everybody knows about (which reminds me about that story of a German couple who did not have kids because they had no idea they were supposed to have sex, nor any idea what sex was). The big three are the lips, the breasts and the vagina/clitoris area. Kisses, caresses, licking, touching and fondling are not only highly recommended, but actually a must for any man who wants to experience the good things in life. And keep in mind that it pays to learn about both what makes your lady go over the edge with pleasure and the way to get her there.
Some of the erogenous zones of the female body, such as the nape of the neck and the inner thighs, are well known from the popular literature. Others, such as the feet and the buttocks, are seen as belonging rather to the fetish group by certain people. However, we shall review them all here.
The feet: The feet are a good place to start hen learning about the power of touch over a woman's sensitive areas. Many women like to have their toes tickled, licked and sucked on lightly. Yes, this does sound like a brave thing to do for many men, but many guys actually enjoy it. Moving up we find the back of the knees, which is an area featuring a high number of nerve endings. This means that the skin is very sensitive to touches and kisses. Further up still are the inner thighs, one of the most popular erogenous areas. Kiss them lightly, bite them lightly and caress to your (and hers) heart's content. Women will love it. At the top backside of the feet are the buttocks, another sensitive area and most women like to have it caressed. If you want to make her sizzling hot, you can also try kissing and licking and I'm sure most guys would not mind if it led to a little anal sex.
The nape of her neck and the ears. These two are a powerful combination and are usually the place to start the foreplay. Kissing, licking, caressing and massage work wonders on the most sensual part of her neck, while gently nibbling her ears will maker her hot and show you are a sophisticated lover at the same time.
The big three. And finally we come to the big three erogenous zones everybody knows about (which reminds me about that story of a German couple who did not have kids because they had no idea they were supposed to have sex, nor any idea what sex was). The big three are the lips, the breasts and the vagina/clitoris area. Kisses, caresses, licking, touching and fondling are not only highly recommended, but actually a must for any man who wants to experience the good things in life. And keep in mind that it pays to learn about both what makes your lady go over the edge with pleasure and the way to get her there.
Friday, January 18, 2008
Oral sex techniques
The vagina is a sort of cave of wonders for most men. This organ that is so different from the penis in its physical shape has always been one of the most powerful turn-ons for men and also a constant source of attraction. Men simply can’t help being curious about it and also about the many techniques they can use on it to give pleasure. Fingers, toys, tongue, lips and penis, nearly all the small parts of our bodies that we can move at all have been used to please women.
And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.
The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.
Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.
Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It’s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you’re making the “come hither” sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you’re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.
Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don’t think you’re man enough to go in dry, because you’ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there’ll be heaven in store for you and more.
One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.
And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.
The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.
Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.
Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It’s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you’re making the “come hither” sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you’re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.
Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don’t think you’re man enough to go in dry, because you’ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there’ll be heaven in store for you and more.
One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.
Rocking Love Machine
Let's say you're a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you're a 'rare to find'. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you're the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you're amazing in bed.
Did I say ROCKING IN BED???
Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.
And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.
Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.
Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest rocking love machine.
Did I say ROCKING IN BED???
Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.
And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.
Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.
Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.
Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest rocking love machine.
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