Oral sex techniques

The vagina is a sort of cave of wonders for most men. This organ that is so different from the penis in its physical shape has always been one of the most powerful turn-ons for men and also a constant source of attraction. Men simply can’t help being curious about it and also about the many techniques they can use on it to give pleasure. Fingers, toys, tongue, lips and penis, nearly all the small parts of our bodies that we can move at all have been used to please women.

And here are a few tips for all you people willing to make your lovers happy, but who are unsure of how to go about it. It doesn’t really matter how you feel about going down on a woman; just keep in mind that she will love it if you really know how to do it and that she will probably be happy to reciprocate. What could be better than a hot lady going down on you and not just out of a sense of obligation, but because she actually wants to do it? Those who are already proficient at oral sex and only want to brush up their skills should read on. This information can’t hurt you.

The best oral sex technique is based on a slow approach that is meant to increase the woman’s arousal without spoiling the mood by being too rough. Start by spreading the labia with two fingers and licking her from the vaginal opening up to the clitoris. Keep at it for a while, changing the movement pattern from time to time, and then have a go at the vagina. Most of the nerve endings that convey the sensation of pleasure are located within the first few inches of the vagina. So stick your tongue in. It won’t go very far inside, but you can move it in circles just inside the opening.

Once the woman is hot enough that licking her vagina is not enough anymore, you can move on to the most sensitive target. Pull back her labia and bring the clitoris into the light. Now you can greet the clitoris with a quick suck. Just take it in your mouth, slide your lips up and down it and then let go. After the initial greeting, you can get to some serious business by taking the clitoris between your lips and flicking your tongue over it. The speed of the tongue depends on how sensitive the clitoris in question is.

Oral sex goes hand in hand with G-spot or anal stimulation. It’s perfectly natural that while your tongue is playing with the clitoris or tracing the labia, your fingers should wonder around. So stick a finger or two inside her vagina (the palm of your hand must face up), a couple of inches from the opening. Then move your fingers as if you’re making the “come hither” sign on the front wall of the vagina. If you’re on target, you should feel a little bump in the wall and your lady should let out a cry of delight.

Alternatively, you can stick a finger inside her anus and introduce her to the exotic pleasure from beyond the Great Wall of the Vagina. Use lubrication on your finger and on her anus. Don’t think you’re man enough to go in dry, because you’ll only get a kick in the face. If you do it right, there’ll be heaven in store for you and more.

One of the most common licking techniques for the long haul is the alphabet technique. The basic idea is to move your tongue over her clitoris in the shape of all the letters in the alphabet. This suggestion accomplishes two goals at the same time because it allows the man to use some variation in the movement pattern, but not enough to spoil the mood, and to prevent the unskilled lover from using the same movements again and again until the lady gets bored.

Rocking Love Machine

Let's say you're a great talker. Sexy and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Great kisser. Unpredictable and you're a 'rare to find'. Your love is one of a kind, silly, fun and sweet. You have your own unique sexiness and you're the most caring person every single girl wants to meet. And last but not the least, you're amazing in bed.

Did I say ROCKING IN BED???

Frankly, if you're doubting yourself then you have a big problem. Whether you’re actually bad in bed or just low on confidence, I can’t say. This is up to you to find out, while I’m just doing some explaining for your convenience. The root of the problem lies in the very simple fact that it takes a lot of experience to know if a woman has an orgasm or if she’s faking it. And even experienced men can’t always tell if the woman’s faking it or not. Bottom line: you can never be sure that your performance is top quality.

And that’s even before we take into account slip ups and “that time” when you were too tired or too stressed or you had too much to drink and, well, you know what happened. Unfortunately, these things can erode a man’s peace of mind and confidence and make him suspicious of his lady’s behavior, even if he shouldn’t be. Some times are good and some times are bad and there’s little you can do about it. Loosing confidence in yourself and throwing good self-esteem out the window just because of a slip up is not the way to deal with this.

Okay then, put all the blame to stress. Stress is one of the great “sex killers” nowadays because no man can truly enjoy himself if he keeps thinking about deadlines, bosses, nasty co-workers or credit card debt. We do live in a stressful world and the modern fashion that surrounds a man with dozens of machines in order to allow him to work harder and harder everyday is doing it’s best to ruin sex around the world. I’m sure that many men who have to resort to Viagra would do better to try and relax a little and take things easier.

Aside from its direct impact on performance, stress has some side effects that are just as bad. Some men take to drinking because of it. It always starts small, since going out with the guys is fun and, hey, we’re just having a few beers. Before you know it the number of beers grows and the “evenings out” turn into “nights out”. Small wonder that a stressed man with a significant quantity of alcohol in his body is not performing in bed as usual. Men need to recognize the early signs of stress in their lives and take control of the situation.

Remember that once you’ve started asking questions about your performance you could easily slide into a pattern where low self esteem triggers a failure, which, in turn, sends self esteem even lower and so on. Try to be a bit more positive about things. You were probably tired or stressed. Or you may need to learn some new positions and break the bedroom routine a bit. Surprise her with a new trick or a fantasy and be the world's greatest rocking love machine.

Compel Wife To Have A Threesome - Convince Your Wife to do Whatever You Ask

Have you ever wanted to convince your wife to have a threesome? Then this post may be the most important message you ever read. And ladies please don’t judge this post and dismiss this writing based on its title only. The merit behind experiencing a threesome is real and an everyday occurrence. Yes, it’s on a lot of men's minds and yes even the roles can be turned when the wife fantasizes about indulging in a sexual interchange between three people.

Their is a strand of hope for those seeking help, its the art of effective persuasion, but before I comment on that subject lets break down a small fraction of the emotional barriers that prevent a threesome from happening.

Quick Story

Your walking down a city sidewalk with your wife on your arm. You glance ahead and see what appears to be a very attractive woman approaching you both. When that women is in plain view your male hormones are drawn to her and without thought you begin to thoroughly check her out. She passes; and again, caught like a deer in a headlight you turn your head to absorb the rear view with a quick glance. At that same time the arm that intertwines yours tightens and jerks you into place. You dismiss it with a snicker or a chuckle as your wife glares with disapproval. Your defensive mechanism takes a stand, you say to yourself or even out load I was just looking! But have you ever thought to take a minute to look at the emotional tides that your wife may experience when your attention is focused on another and not on her?

Thoughts Your Wife May Experience

• If he loves me why do his eyes wander?
• He doesn’t find me attractive anymore
• He continues to insist on a threesome, aren’t I enough for him
• If he can’t keep his eyes off other women what is he doing when I’m not around?
• F#%king Dog!

Too often we are indulged in our own thoughts and not how our partners feel, so much so that we don’t see behind the curtain. From a non-gender specific prospective we may look but rarely fantasize unless there has been some type of relationship established.

The role of emotions play both ways, a man feels that a wife is being a motherly figure if scolded for his wondering eyes, his defense is a emotional turbulence and sometimes converts to anger when he is continually pushed. A women feels hurt and experiences a level of self disapproval and the emotional scarring that will inadvertently last a lot longer than our thoughts of being judged unfairly.

Emotions are an ongoing battle and being judged for our sexual thoughts or ideas is wrong. We are individuals with unique perspectives in how we wish to be loved and experience love. To some the idea of having a threesome will bring joy but to others dismay based solely on our behaviors in our relationships.

The truth is guys, it is highly probable that you will never convince your wife to have a threesome if your own relationship is not in check. If she is not the main focus of your attention how do you think she would feel in a sexual relationship with another woman and you. Would your attention be on her or the other woman? Ultimately men want to experience a threesome for selfish sexual satisfaction.

There is a powerful way to convince your wife to have a threesome but it is unethical and very dangerous. It's called effective persuasion. I must emphasize this however, if you compel your wife to indulge in an unwanted sexual relationship the scarring may never heal and ultimately cause the relationship to suffer beyond repair. But if you are willing to risk it, then, Clifford Mee offers an amazing course, conversational hypnosis that will tip the scale in your favor to convince anyone of anything.

Before I end this post on threesomes lets do a little role swapping. Guys how would you feel if your wife continually approached you to have a threesome with another man and wanted you to perform sexual acts with that man? Would you say yes? Would you question here love? Would you wonder if she has been faithful? Would your self-esteem as a man be lowered? Only you have the answers to those questions. Explore love to its fullest but respect your wife's wishes when it comes to being involved in a threesome, if you don't you just may not have the ability to keep your partner for life eternally loyal.

Sex Advice That Matters

What is the best sex advice someone can give to you? Is it being able to master the sexual positions? Is it sound advice from the so called experts in the field? And what makes them experts when it comes to giving sex advice?

There is a lot of hype out on the Internet that feed of the insecurities of others when it comes to producing the passion one wishes to receive and give in the bedroom. Yes different sex positions can help but the real test to receiving the best sex advice comes straight from the advice your partner is willing to share with you. Barriers are always up; do to the fact that we might face embracement or denial or that it will be a turn off if we request a certain sexual need to be performed that our partner is not willing.

Open communication between partners is essential for the passion to grow. Tell your partner what you like and how you like it. Don’t be demanding and don’t give alternatives, your job is to please the other and by doing so your pleasure that you will receive will be returned beyond your own expectations. This will open the door for exploration, and launch the passion and the imagination that is hidden within each of you.

Introduction To Sex Positions and Talk

Not a guide but rather a tool "Sex Positions and Talk" was created to aid you into what some may think as taboo, the exploration of sex. Our goal is to help give you the sexual confidence to approach any partner and find the best sex positions to satisfy you both. In the posts to follow you will learn amazing new sexual techniques, sex positions and advice that will allow you to gain knowledge and a reputation among women and their friends as a superior lover. Getting sexual partners will become much easier.

There is no greater turn on than to have the ability to sexually please your partner no matter what sex positions you master. Too often we men take this for granted and use the bedroom as nothing more than a quick fix to place our testosterone levels into check, leaving our sex partner unfulfilled and yearning for more than we can't or don't know how to deliver.

True; as teens that's all that mattered but as we mature so must our sexual knowledge. How we use our sexual intellect along with our God given member (penis) is our ultimate responsibility in the pursuit to never have our sex lives go stale or routine and leave our partners yearning for more.